By intern, Timothy Gibbs
Every four
years the Gay Games brings a collection of athletes from around the
world to one location - this year to Cleveland, a short six hour ride
from New York City. When the opportunity to attend was presented itself,
I jumped at the chance to meet so many LGBT athletes.
As a life-long basketball junkie I wanted to see gay men compete in
the sport I love. After some sightseeing I headed to Cleveland State
this morning to catch some of the action.
Earlier this weekend I ran across a cluster of hoop players at one of many Gay Game parties. Throughout the night they owned the dance floor with their Wobble and brought the room to a frenzy.
I sat back and laughed thinking
to myself, how good can these guys be at basketball? It wasn’t because
they could dance, but because of the WAY they danced. Some had their
shirts rolled up like Daisy Duke while others referred to their
teammates as “guurrrl.” I’ve had the privilege of being around some
great basketball players in my life, and there were obviously none in
this room.
Earlier this weekend I ran across a cluster of hoop players at one of many Gay Game parties. Throughout the night they owned the dance floor with their Wobble and brought the room to a frenzy.
Or so I thought.
Fast forward to
this morning. I walked into the gym and the San Francisco-based Rock
Dogs were playing against the LA Dream. The game was extremely
competitive with the Dogs pulling out a 10-point win. As I watched I
realized some of these guys can really ball - I mean REALLY BALL.
Throughout the
next few hours I watched a few more games and was impressed with the
level of talent and aggressive play across the board.
In judging
their athletic skills based on their dancing the night before I realized
I was guilty of the same prejudice and stereotyping that drive me to
call out others.
I was
disappointed in myself for falling into the thoughts of mainstream
society. Athletes are supposed to fit a specific mold or act a certain
way. These beliefs are what have kept so many on the closet for so
long. Jason Collins and Michael Sam fit the mold on the surface; Both
are “masculine” by society’s norms.
What we need
are more athletes like many of those in Cleveland this week: People who
aren’t afraid to be themselves, dress a little different, use some
unconventional language and to quote some of my gay friends, be fierce.
Tomorrow
morning I’ll be at the gym watching them dunk the ball and knock down
treys. This time I won’t judge them by the way they act off the court.
I hope to see the basketball players at the clubs again tonight. I might even dance with them.
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