
'When I look in the mirror, I am satisfied': Hunky transgender man
finds success as a male model just two years after he started taking
testosterone.

- Laith Ashley, 26, says he knew there was a 'misalignment' between his body and mind when he was a five-year-old girl
- He came out as gay to his parents at 17 but didn't realize he was trans until many years later.
- He walked the runway at New York Fashion Week in February and also appeared in a Barney's New York campaign.
- Whoopi Goldberg and Laverne Cox are fans of the New Yorker,
A
hunky New York model who's racked up tens of thousands of Instagram
followers is known for his piercing eyes, broad shoulders, and sexy
six-pack — and, if you know his backstory, the fact that he used to be a
woman.
Laith
Ashley, 26, has been finding success in the modeling world since he
started transitioning two years ago, walking in shows for Adrian Alicea
and Gypsy Sport during New York Fashion Week this February and even
posing for a Barney's New York campaign with legendary fashion
photographer Bruce Weber.
'Being
a model now is definitely exciting. I'm always shocked when I'm walking
to the gym or going to the store and people recognize me. It makes me
feel good, but it can be a bit of shock.'
Laith had a great time taking to the runway, thought it wasn't exactly where he thought he'd end up.
'New
York Fashion Week was fun — it's funny as I never intended to get into
modelling,' he said. 'It just happened... [but] everything happens for a
reason and I'm really excited to see where it goes from here.'
The
muscular New Yorker was just five when he noticed the 'misalignment'
with his body and gender identity, he said. When he was a 17-year-old
girl, still not quite sure of who he was, he came out as gay to his
parents.
'At
the time I didn't know what transgender was, so I just told them I had a
girlfriend,' he explained. 'But I never felt right with the idea of
being a lesbian woman.'
Finally, a year before he medically transitioned, he broke the news to his mom.
'My mom is
Pentecostal Christian, and although she loves me she felt it conflicted
with her faith,' he said, adding that she now brags about him to her
friends at church. 'My dad was fine. I told him that if he is proud of
me, it takes away the power of people who criticize. Who cares what
other people think, if he is proud?'
After two years of being on testosterone, Laith underwent surgery in 2015.
'There
was a lot of fear at first. It took me six years from the moment I came
out as trans to actually begin my medical transition,' he recalled.
'Once I got over that fear, there was no stopping me. I am the most
comfortable I have ever been.'
Now, he works out three times a week to keep himself muscular, and flexes his incredibly toned physique online.
'When
I look in the mirror, I am satisfied with that image. It is how I want
to present myself to the world. This is me,' he said.

Still, he's
been thrown a bit off-balance by all of the attention. Since he began
modeling, he's earned almost 60,000 Instagram followers and support from
celebrities like Whoopi Goldberg and transgender actress Laverne Cox.
But while the attention was exciting at first, it soon became too much.
'I
went through a period of being very overwhelmed. I focused on all the
negative comments I was receiving and just wanted to disappear,' he
said. 'I never thought of myself as a role model. It was a label placed
upon me after my photos began circulating through social media.'
Laith,
who used to work as an insurance navigator at Callen Lorde Community
Health Center, said he is still passionate about being an activist for
the LGBT community.
'I
know many look up to me, because I may fit the image they wish to
achieve, which I find incredibly humbling, but I want them to also know
that their life journey is their own.'"People should be true to
themselves - they don't have to fit a box."
Olympic
skier Gus Kenworthy and his family appeared on Celebrity Family Feud
this weekend to play for the Happy Hippie Foundation, a charity founded
by Miley Cyrus to fight injustice facing homeless youth, LGBTQ youth
and other vulnerable populations. - See more at:
http://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/08/28/steve-harvey-to-parents-who-reject-their-lgbt-kids-i-will-never-stop-loving-my-kid/#sthash.edlHCniI.dpuf
Olympic
skier Gus Kenworthy and his family appeared on Celebrity Family Feud
this weekend to play for the Happy Hippie Foundation, a charity founded
by Miley Cyrus to fight injustice facing homeless youth, LGBTQ youth
and other vulnerable populations. - See more at:
http://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/08/28/steve-harvey-to-parents-who-reject-their-lgbt-kids-i-will-never-stop-loving-my-kid/#sthash.edlHCniI.dpuf
Olympic
skier Gus Kenworthy and his family appeared on Celebrity Family Feud
this weekend to play for the Happy Hippie Foundation, a charity founded
by Miley Cyrus to fight injustice facing homeless youth, LGBTQ youth
and other vulnerable populations. - See more at:
http://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/08/28/steve-harvey-to-parents-who-reject-their-lgbt-kids-i-will-never-stop-loving-my-kid/#sthash.edlHCniI.dpuf
Olympic
skier Gus Kenworthy and his family appeared on Celebrity Family Feud
this weekend to play for the Happy Hippie Foundation, a charity founded
by Miley Cyrus to fight injustice facing homeless youth, LGBTQ youth
and other vulnerable populations. - See more at:
http://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/08/28/steve-harvey-to-parents-who-reject-their-lgbt-kids-i-will-never-stop-loving-my-kid/#sthash.edlHCniI.dpufModel Laith Ashley covers the June issue of
Attitude magazine, along with out champion canoeist Matt Lister.
Ashley first came to our collective attention in Barneys New York's groundbreaking
Brother, Sisters, Sons & Daughters
campaign, shot by Bruce Weber and featuring other models who happened
to be trans. However, as he tells trans activist Paris Lees, the
spotlight had a darker side.
“People were really nasty and for about three weeks I just couldn’t
stop reading the comments," Ashley said of the Instagram trolls. "I knew
I shouldn’t have, but I kept reading and the more I read, the worse the
comments got.
"I’ve learned that you can’t please everyone.”